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13 Responses to "Are you Living in a Bucketful of Crabs? Evaluate your Relationships"
AVINASH LAD
thanks for the wonderful article but I would have appreciated if you had given suggestions regardings crabs in our life who can't be done away with
Prabhakar Parikh
Have you ever tried to clap with one hand? No you can't. Relationship is just like that. It takes two to make a win. If your relationship is not going well, you have a hand in it. So look hard at yourself and identify the crabby attitudes in you that if you change will take your relationships to a new level. Always ask yourself what you can do for others, without expectations and life will have a new meaning.
Abhinav Singh
Nice to read it.
Parvathi M.S.
Excellent article which make us self analyse
Avtaar
A very insightful article. its the fear of letting go because we probably are afraid to lose or afraid of being lonely that makes us stick on to crabby people.
HEMEN
EXCELLENT AND A VERY INSPIRATIONAL ARTICLE WHICH MAKES U THINK AND ALSO SELF ANALYSE OUR OWN SELF.REGARDS
sunil
Excellent inpirational thoughts.
PANKAJ KHARE
I strogly believe that acceptance is the greatest tool in one's day today life.Once we are able to develop and apply this , we can creat harmony every where even in conflicts..Accepting some one or some thing unconditionly means giving respect.Humility begins with unconditional gratitude. Thnx
Anisa
Yes ...I think a better way for me to put it is to look at the relationship dynamic, not the person, where each relationship is a win-win situation, and no one is pulling anyone else down. Often it really is just us having to adjust our own attitude - how we receive other people's words, that matters more than what other people say. It's most important to let go of the crabs within ourselves.
Shiv
Very inspiring article. But to my mind, the important question is "Whether I am being a crab in some one else's life ? One can behave like a crab without realising that the effect he is having on others. So self analysis is equally important,; able to recognise one's own behaviour a real competency; ability to change & control oneself a real quality. Saari Zindagi nikal gayi, khushian batorte batorte; par khush na ho sake; Phir jana ki khush to woh the, jo khushiyan baant rahe the.
Ashok Kumar Sethi
Your article in regard to crabs full in a bucket is a lesson to all. To say that a single crab can come out of bucket is right, but in this world, we all are social being and loneliness hardly happens. I have heard saying of Tagore Rabindranath, Ekla Chalo Re. As a leader to lead your way, this slogan fits with the story of a single crab. But, when you have to walk in group, in society, or in community, this phrase does not work. Even, I have seen in your social circle, if one is keeping himself or herself aloof can hardly be acceptable to all. Ofcourse slogan is right in certain perspective but can not be applicable right for all for always.
Prashant
Thanks for the article. After reading the article, instead of finding out who possibly are the crabs in my life, I am having a feeling whether I am a crab for some people. And if yes, what right do I have to be a crab. Thanks for reminding me of Ranchho... there is always a time in our lives when we all are like Ranchho... full of enthusiasm, full of energy, oozing with optimism... I need to find Ranchho inside me... Behati hawaa sa tha wo... Udati patang sa tha wo... Kahaan Gayaa Usse Dhoondo...
ak bhargava
the crabs are more often there than we think. Problem gets complicated when crabs are ones wth whom you have to continue the relationship through out life. In such circumstance best is to divert your mind and thinking about positive people , limiting your time given to such people.
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